Thanksgiving

Happy Belated Thanksgiving! I hope that you have recovered from eating too much in the last couple days. And may you not be tired of turkey leftovers just yet! :)

Thanksgiving! What a truly great American holiday. Ideally,

we should live in the spirit of Thanksgiving everyday. But isn't cool that we set aside time each year to pause and be purposefully thankful. I am sure your "thankfulness" list was long, just as ours. We really do have MUCH for which to give thanks.

This year we celebrated Thanksgiving in Dallas at Mamaw and Papaw Wolfe's house. Jimmy, Kristi, Melodie & Caitlyn, and Tony, Vanessa, Ethan & Aaron came to town for a few days to celebrate with us. We enjoyed a couple of days relaxing with family -- eating, playing games, eating some more.

Jairus had fun playing with his cousins. Usually he has Mamaw's house and Mamaw all to himself, but he did a good job sharing! :)

Flash to the past :)

Thanksgiving 2006 ~ 1 month old

Thanksgiving 2007 -- first time to REALLY walk

Thanksgiving 2008

H says "Hah"

I know, I know. It has been a month since Jairus' birthday and I have yet to blog about it. Well, between my mom and I, we have dozens of pictures! It feels impossible to narrow them down and yet really do justice to the little party he had. I think I will just put them in a flickr album for anyone who is interested.

Instead I am going to tell my favorite story from that day.

We had a Curious George themed party with just a few family friends. I kept it pretty low key so that Jairus wouldn't be overwhelmed. And he had a great time! When he woke up from his afternoon nap the house was filled with "George" items, which Jairus LOVED!

Jairus still didn't really get the art and purpose of unwrapping gifts. If the gift was in a gift bag, he did pretty good on his own. But honest-to-goodness wrapped gifts, he needed help. On one gift, his almost 3-years-old friend, Aubrie, helped him. While she was busy tearing off the "Happy Birthday" paper, Jairus grabbed a piece of the paper and started to "read" it. "H says Hah", etc. Ha! I bet he'll never be so interested in the paper again! :)

Silent Treatment

This past weekend Joe and I made a mad dash to Ohio for a friend's wedding. With another couple, we drove the 16+ hours straight both coming and going. That is one reason we decided not to take Jairus with us on the journey. Instead, he got 3 fun-filled days with Mamaw and Papaw Wolfe. This is the longest he has even been away from both of us. Whenever one of us has traveled, the other parental unit has been at home. Now we know he had a great time and got along just fine without us, but you would never guess that by the reaction we got Sunday afternoon when he saw us. To let us know that he was mad at us for leaving him, Jairus gave us the silent treatment. He wanted us to hold him but he was not going to talk to us or smile or anything! Thankfully that trend ended when he woke up from his nap at home! He has a been a bit clingy, but at least he is talking again!

The wedding was beautiful and well worth the hours upon hours spent in the car. This young couple is such a testimony to the blessings of waiting on God's perfect timing. They both felt called to work in the Congo through Wycliffe Bible Translators. Individually they were pursuing that calling when God brought them together. Their God story is really cool and this is just the beginning. We look forward to seeing the rest of their destiny unfold.

Of course, attending a wedding always makes me retrospective and introspective. I love thinking back to our wedding day because it was so special. I couldn't have asked for a better wedding. What a special memory! But weddings also cause me to think about my marriage. Am I living up to the covenant I signed? Is our marriage better than the special ceremony 6 years ago? The wedding is just one day, but marriage is day after day after day. But I walked away thankful -- thankful to God for His blessing and watch care over our marriage, for giving me a wonderful husband, and for His grace to walk out married life.

Silly Urkey

One of my favorite books to read with Jairus is Blue Hat, Green Hat by Sandra Boynton. (Actually, we love all her books! If you have kids, look for her books!)

In the story, animals of all shapes, sizes and kinds are correctly wearing colorful hats, shoes, pants, etc, BUT the turkey can never seem to get it right. Poor Turkey has his pants on his head or jacket on his nose or something obviously wrong. Several weeks ago as Jairus and I read the story, I commented "silly turkey." Jairus caught on quickly pointing out on every page "silly urkey." Later that night when Jairus was getting ready for bed I commented that he was "silly Jairus." That started it. Ever since, "silly Jairus" has been part of our interactions. It didn't take Jairus but a few days to transfer the silliness to us -- silly mommy or silly daddy - even if we weren't doing anything silly. But we would exchange the silly accusations just because it was cute, fun, and well....silly. :)

And the whole silliness has continued to grow. When Grandma Bane was here for his birthday, she was pulled into the game with a "silly ganma" once or twice. But this last week has been a hoot! Now our friends are silly -- even baby Holt. We also have "silly George" (Curious that is), "silly People" (in the Little variety), "silly triangle" (mom's clothes hanger), etc. You get the idea.

This week he also developed an adaptation -- which I could save for another blog....but I am on a roll! When I am in the living room trying to do school work, Jairus likes to sit with me or more like on me. He wants my attention. Sometimes I will cradle him, hug him real tight, kiss him, and say "baby Jairus." He usually responds with laughter and a repeated "baby Jairus." But this week he totally cracked me up. During our little interaction Jairus' response was "baby mommy."

Ha! Silly Jairus!!!!

Toddler Walking

The J-boy is up and at 'em again! :)

Thankfully, yesterday he saw an orthopedic doctor who decided to put him in a boot for the next 3 weeks. He goes back the first of December for more x-rays and we'll go from there. When they took the splint off, Jairus' foot was still a little swollen, and he was able to tell Joe "owee" and "no owee." So, it still hurt him a bit.

The orthopedic thinks that it is likely a hairline fracture and wants to be safe to protect him. We are just SO thankful that he has a walking boot. Trying to keep Jairus from walking in that splint was nearly impossible. Saturday he did ok and we watched several movies. But by Sunday he was tired of crawling "like a baby." So far, he has done great adjusting to the boot. It is a little big and awkward, but he seems to be maneuvering even better today.

Thanks for all your concerns. Check back in 3 weeks for pictures of his foot in normal shoes.

Actually, you can check back before then too because I might actually blog sometime. :)

No Walking!

The question of the day: how do you keep an active 2 year old boy from walking?

If you know the answer, please enlighten us. After a trip to Urgent Care this evening, Jairus came home with a splint, some Motrin and instructions not to walk!

I hear your question: what happened. So, here is the story.

This evening Jairus and Joe were preparing to go get the mail. Jairus ran to get his shoes/socks when he fell in the hallway. It was weird. He sometimes fake falls, and there are a few times he gets tripped up. But this time he got up crying real tears. Joe was finally able to get him calm enough to figure out that his left foot hurt. It was kinda cute when Joe was holding Jairus, he put his hands on his head, shook his head and said "oh no." Anyway -- when we put him down, he wouldn't put any weight on the foot and limped on his heel. He also wanted Joe to hold him. But we figured he just twisted it so no big deal.

About an hour later we were getting ready to leave for the football game which meant putting pants on the boy and his shoes. Well, he screamed when Joe put pants on him. That is when we noticed his foot was swollen. He still wouldn't put any weight on his left foot when he hobbled around. So, we decided to take advantage of having insurance and play it safe not sorry. Off to urgent care we went.

After a surprisingly short wait in the waiting room, we spent a long time in one of those curtain rooms. The doctor took x-rays to look for a fracture. X-rays were an ordeal to say the least. It took Joe, a female nurse, and a big male nurse to wrestle Jairus down and another nurse to take the 2 pictures. The x-rays didn't show a break, but the doctor said that toddler fractures are pretty common especially along growth plates (like at his ankle). So, she had a splint put on his leg and instructed us to see an orthopedic doctor next week. (Why don't things like this happen during the week so we can a specialist the next day??)

Now we are supposed to keep him from walking and watch for swelling and fever, etc. Good times.

We think it probably is just a bruise and sprain. But since neither of us have doctorates in any subject, we figured that we should follow instructions from someone who does. :) But all things considered, it is all good. Join us in praying that Jairus' foot and leg will be just fine.

Tall & Skinny

Jairus had his 2 year check-up this morning. He didn't really like the nurse or Dr. Yee checking him out. And unfortunately he had to get 2 shots, but life was quickly better once he had a sucker to sooth the pain. :)

His official stats: 27 lbs (under 50%) and 35.5 inches tall (75%). No surprise there. EVERYONE comments on how tall he is. No wonder his pants can't stay up.

Thought I would post a few pictures from the last couple weeks. (I know I need to do a birthday party blog...but it will have to wait for another day.)

Pumpkin, Pumpkin P P P (sing along with us!)

"a mess" -- you don't say!

2 new birthday toys -- bike and phone

2 years with Spade bear

Happy Birthday boy

Yo -- check out how cool I am

up, up, up!

down, down down! :)